"The fleas come with the dog."Flannery O'Connor wrote this statement, and while it is true with regard to canines and parasites, it is unfortunately not the case for wisdom and Christians. Wisdom does not come with the Christian. We are capable of obtaining it, but often, we do not choose to engage in such an endeavor. We rely too much on our understanding or the intellect of others.
My most recent blog posts have been about discerning God's will, and over Christmas break as I was studying for a Bible study on the topic, I was guided to Proverbs 2:3-5.
"Yes, if you call out for insight and raise your voice for understanding, if you seek it like silver and search for it as for hidden treasures, then you will understand the fear of the LORD and find the knowledge of God. For the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding."God promises to give wisdom to those who ask in faith (Jas. 1:5), and over this past year, God has showed me how I desperately need His wisdom to make godly choices, to discern, and to lead others. God doesn't promise that I can always know His will, but He does promise wisdom. However, Proverbs 2 indicates that we don't just ask and receive. Obtaining wisdom involves effort on our part. It involves earnestly and diligently seeking it from God and searching for it in His Word. This became my mission this past month. To search for wisdom in Scripture. For me, the journey involved a study of Proverbs, and as I have read through this book, I have been compiling a list of characteristics or hallmarks of wisdom and asking myself if they describe my life. Reflection is good for the soul, but it often feels like putting antiseptic on a fresh wound because under close inspection we see that we are not as good as we thought we were and are convicted about the sin that infects us. Thankfully, our Savior is also the Great Physician. We simply need to swallow our pride, admit we're sick, and go visit the Good Doctor.
For those of you who are interested, below is the list I've compiled from Proverbs. It's divided into categories to help make it easier to read.
Do these characteristics describe you? I suggest reading them carefully, although you might be tempted to skim or to think you already know what's there. You might be surprised.
As a side note, I do want to remind you that none of these things can be avoided or done on our own power. The Holy Spirit works in us to transform us, and we must remain on our knees and close to our Lord in order to be faithful people.
What the Wise Person AvoidsConsenting to sin (1:10)
Withholding good from others (3:27)
Deviousness (3:28-32)
Crooked speech (4:24)
Adultery/Fornication (5:3-12)
Laziness (6:9-11)
Haughtiness (6:16-19)
Lying (6:16-19)
Murder (6:16-19)
Wickedness (6:16-19)
Evil (6:16-19)
Sowing discord (6:16-19)
Rehashing or bring up hurtful things from the past in order to wound others (17:9)
Being a quarrelsome wife (19:3; 21:9; 25:24; 27:15-16)
Being led astray by alcohol/drunkenness (20:1; 23:20-21, 30-35)
Close associations with angry, wrathful people (22:24-25)
Being enslaved/in debt to lenders (22:7, 26-27)
Greediness/covetousness (23:1-5)
Envy (23:17)
Gluttony (23:20-21)
Partiality (24:23; 27:21)
Sarcasm (26:18-19)
Brown-nosing/having a flattering mouth (26:28)
Praising or flattering yourself (27:2)
Forsaking your friends (27:10)
What the Wise Person DoesListen (1:5)
Heed instruction and teaching (1:8; 19:20)
Turn at reproof (1:23; 15:31; 19:25)
Walk on the good and righteous path (2:20)
Keep the commandments (3:1)
Trust in the Lord instead of in yourself (3:5)
Fear the Lord (3:7)
Honor the Lord with your money (3:9)
Strive for peace (3:17)
Keep your heart with all vigilance (4:23)
Keep your eyes on the path ahead of you (4:25)
Stay faithful to your spouse (5:15-20)
Humble yourself and set things right if you are wrong (6:1-5)
Prepare for the future and be industrious (6:6-8)
Remain Steadfast in righteousness (8:20; 11:19)
Act justly (8:20)
Demonstrate integrity (10:9)
Speak healing words that are righteous (10:11, 31-32; 12:18)
Cover all offenses with love (10:12; 17:9)
Restrain speech - keeps silent instead of babbling (10:19; 13:3; 17:27-28; 21:23)
Demonstrate humility (11:2; 16:18-19; 23:6-7)
Be trustworthy (11:13)
Have an abundance of counselors (11:14; 15:22; 24:6)
Be gracious and kind (11:16-17; 16:24)
Give (11:23-25)
Think just thoughts (12:5)
Treat animals with kindness/is not cruel to them (12:10)
Work and earn a living (12:11)
Listen to counsel (12:15; 13:10; 15:22)
Ignore insults (12:16)
Carefully choose friends (12:26)
Keep company with wise people (13:20)
Discipline your children (13:24; 19:18; 22:6, 15; 23:13-14)
Be cautious (14:16)
Be slow to anger (14:17, 27)
Be generous to the poor (14:21, 31; 19:17; 21:13)
Remain calm and speaks gently and respectfully when situations are tense and people are upset (15:1-4; 17:27-28)
Share acquired wisdom and knowledge with others (15:7)
Seek knowledge (15:14; 18:15; 23:12)
Have a glad, thankful, and cheerful heart (15:13, 15; 17:22; 19:2)
Carefully consider how to answer/respond (15:28; 16:20)
Be a faithful friend who loves at all times (17:17)
Overlooks offenses (19:11)
Love steadfastly (19:22)
Carefully reflect before making promises/vows (20:25)
Diligently plan/work (21:5)
Persevere in adversity (24:10)
Trust the Lord to judge the wicked (24:19-20)
Rebuke the wicked instead of condoning their actions (24:24-25)
Help prevent others from taking the wrong path (24:11)
Be discreet - keep secrets (25:9-10)
Treat your enemy with kindness (25:21)
Practice self-control (25:28)
Stay out of other people's business/disagreements (26:17)
Confess transgressions (28:13)